Coping

• Be aware of the kinds of things that might trouble him.
• Help teach positive ways to show her anger, fear or other emotions. She may want to talk about her emotions or, she may prefer drawing pictures or writing stories. Music can also help change your child's emotional state.
• Be available and provide physical comfort. Children need hugs, smiles and reassurances that they are safe.
• Try to keep normal routine. Setting up and sticking to regular schedules helps children feel calm and secure.
• Let your child play! He may work through a difficult situation through pretend play. Dancing and other physical activity can also help him relieve stress.

Accepting Differences

• Children may have trouble accepting people or events that are unfamiliar. Point out things that are similar to your child and then help her understand and appreciate the things that are different.
• Learn aboutpeople from different cultures or countries together.
• Provide opportunities for your child to interact and play with children from different backgrounds.
• Help your child see things from other people's point of view.
• Let children know that although some people are hurtful, most are kind and good.
• Be aware that children learn from images that surround them . Television, radio, newspapers, bus ads and billboards can have a big impact on children.

Moving Forward

• Children take cues from your reactions to everyday events. Try to remain calm.
• Point out successes. Praise your child when he faces a new situation with ease. It will give him confidence for the next new and different thing.
• Give your child a chance to help others. Ask her what she'd like to do and then help her do it. She'll realize that she has the ability to make a difficult situation better.
• Your child may take a while to heal from certain events or situations, such as the death or serious illness of a parent, sibling, relative, or friend; major changes in family life or income; dramatic world events; etc. Encourage your child to ask questions and talk about ongoing concerns.